Murphy

Jul. 26th, 2008 11:16 am
stoutfellow: (Murphy)
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It's over.

The radiologist found no evidence of tumors, but, after a long talk with the vet, I decided that Murphy was in such bad shape that it was time to let him go.

He shuffled off the mortal coil at about 10:45 AM CDT.

I'll have more to say later.
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Date: 2008-07-26 04:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] colliemommie.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you, for this and for earlier support.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] akatsukami.livejournal.com
My sympathies. That it was surely the right decision does not mean that it was an easy one to make.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jfsnyder.livejournal.com
I am sorry. We all sling drool; with magical healing properties, your way.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. I appreciate the support.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:04 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
May the hole in your heart soon fill with wonderful memories. :( Sister C

Date: 2008-07-27 04:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
That's about the only caulk there is, isn't it? Writing the eulogy helped.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tygerr.livejournal.com
So sorry for what you (all) have been going through.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oilhistorian.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. I know from sad personal experience how hard a decision it was to make.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Yes. I deeply appreciate the support you two have given.

Date: 2008-07-26 05:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] desert-vixen.livejournal.com

(((( ))))

I know that's never easy to do, even when you know it's really the only fair thing to do.

DV

Date: 2008-07-27 04:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you, and (((()))) back in your troubles. Stay safe, all right?

Date: 2008-07-26 06:05 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] xinef.livejournal.com
Oh dear, so sorry. {hugs}

Date: 2008-07-27 04:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 06:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mmegaera.livejournal.com
A brave decision. Boosting the good thought stream your way.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
I don't know about brave, but it was necessary. Thanks for all the support.

Date: 2008-07-26 06:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rfmcdpei.livejournal.com
I am so sorry.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 06:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] allyra.livejournal.com
*hugs* I am so sorry. It's a very hard decision to make. My thoughts are with you.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. You and the others have been my rock.

Date: 2008-07-26 06:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sunlizzard.livejournal.com
I am so sorry, dear friend. I have not one iota of doubt that you chose right, both in what to do and knowing when the time to act had come.

I know that to some the idea of The Bridge is treacly and silly, but... well, phooey on them. I absolutely DO believe that our beloved pets have an afterlife and that they await reunion with us. Murphy is there, as lively and healthy as in puppyhood, romping without pain or infirmity.

{{{many, many hugs}}}}

Date: 2008-07-27 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
As the Lady Julian wrote, "All will be well, and all will be well, and all manner of thing will be well." Or there's Lewis' formulation: "If this is not true, something better will be." Thank you, dear friend, for everything.

Date: 2008-07-26 06:54 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] spiffikins
I'm so sorry :(

Date: 2008-07-27 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 07:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nara-cat.livejournal.com

So, so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. (Does the icon have a specific source, beyond the Blake allusion?)

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From: [identity profile] nara-cat.livejournal.com - Date: 2008-08-06 01:48 am (UTC) - Expand

Date: 2008-07-26 07:51 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] al-zorra.livejournal.com
Oh, honey.

A big hug for you. I'm so sorry. You are hurting about this so much.

Love, C.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. It comes and goes, but I'll survive.

Date: 2008-07-26 08:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dan-ad-nauseam.livejournal.com
Yet more sympathies.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-26 10:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gryphons-lair.livejournal.com
I'm so very sorry.

(((hugs)))

Date: 2008-07-27 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. I appreciate the support so very much.

Date: 2008-07-27 01:24 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] trixtah.livejournal.com
My sympathies.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-27 03:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] subcreator.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-27 05:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] neonnurse.livejournal.com
Sympathy for you and Ben.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-27 11:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] threeringedmoon.livejournal.com
My condolences.

Date: 2008-07-27 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Murphy

Date: 2008-07-27 02:55 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Dad and I are very sorry. We send our condolences. Virtual Hugs from the entire family. Dad.don

Re: Murphy

Date: 2008-07-27 04:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thanks. I'll talk to you tonight.

Date: 2008-07-28 01:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] coalboy.livejournal.com
sorry this is so late, but {{hugs}}

Date: 2008-07-28 10:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you.

Date: 2008-07-28 06:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hornedhopper.livejournal.com
Oh, my dear friend. Oh. I have just now checked in to see that the saddest has happened. I am so very, very sorry for your pain. You have been a very brave father and friend to Murphy and, as awful as it now feels, the painful decision was the right one. Be sure to give Ben lots of extra love; he will need it, and it will make you feel better, too.

My mother has always said that if heaven is a perfect place, then her dogs will be there, too. Amen to that. It has comforted me many times in the past to think of a beloved pet, newly departed, being met by one of my long gone family members; maybe such a thought could be of comfort to you in this sad time, now.

I'm glad you had the years with Murphy you've had. Planning for another dog in no way diminishes your love for him; I was glad to read your red wagon plans.

Many hugs, Friend. We'll be keeping you in our prayers from here. And I am so sorry that I didn't know until tonight.

Date: 2008-07-28 10:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stoutfellow.livejournal.com
Thank you. I'm sorry; I should have written, and I don't really know why I didn't.

Date: 2008-07-28 05:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bibliotrope.livejournal.com
I'm sorry to hear this. Hugs.
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